Professor Randy Pausch became an “accidental celebrity” last year when he gave his “last lecture” not as a formality but knowing he was dying of pancreatic cancer. In A Final Farewell, Wall Street Journal writer Jeffrey Zaslow describes how he co-wrote The Last Lecture with Pausch:
Years ago, Jai had suggested that Randy compile his advice into a book for her and the kids. She wanted to call it “The Manual.” Now, in the wake of the lecture, others were also telling Randy that he had a book in him.He resisted at first. Yes, there were things he felt an urge to express. But given his prognosis, he wanted to spend his limited time with his family.
Then he caught a break. Palliative chemotherapy stalled the growth of his tumors. “This will be the first book to ever list the drug Gemcitabine on the acknowledgments page,” he joked. But he still didn’t want the book to get in the way of his last months with his kids. So he came up with a plan.
Because exercise was crucial to his health, he would ride his bicycle around his neighborhood for an hour each day. This was time he couldn’t be with his kids, anyway. He and I agreed that he would wear a cellphone headset on these rides, and we’d talk about everything on his mind — the lecture, his life, his dreams for his family.
Every day, as soon as his bike ride came to an end, so did our conversation. “Gotta go!” he’d say, and I knew he felt an aching urge (and responsibility) to return to his family life.
But the next day, he’d be back on the bike, enthusiastic about the conversation. He confided in me that since his diagnosis, he had found himself feeling saddest when he was alone, driving his car or riding his bike. So I sensed that he enjoyed my company in his ears as he pedaled.
Randy had a way of framing human experiences in his own distinctive way, mixing humor here, unexpected inspiration there, and wrapping it all in an uncommon optimism. In the three months after the lecture, he went on 53 long bike rides, and the stories he told became not just his book, but also part of his process of saying goodbye.
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