Scientists are finally starting to take happiness seriously. So what do you have to do to find happiness? summarizes some recent findings:
Public surveys measure what makes us happy. Marriage does, pets do, but children don’t seem to (despite what we think). Youth and old age are the happiest times. Money does not add much to happiness; in Britain, incomes have trebled since 1950, but happiness has not increased at all. The happiness of lottery winners returns to former levels within a year. People disabled in an accident are likely to become almost as happy again. For happiness levels are probably genetic: identical twins are usually equally bubbly or grumpy.One thing makes a striking difference. When two American psychologists studied hundreds of students and focused on the top 10% ‘very happy’ people, they found they spent the least time alone and the most time socialising. Psychologists know that increasing the number of social contacts a miserable person has is the best way of cheering them up. When Jean-Paul Sartre wrote ‘hell is other people’, the arch-pessimist of existentialist angst was wrong.
Freud’s work, of course, is pseudo-science:
Since the days of Freud, the emphasis in consulting rooms has been on talk about negative effects of the past and how they damage people in the present. Seligman names this approach “victimology” and says research shows it to be worthless: “It is difficult to find even small effects of childhood events on adult personality, and there is no evidence at all of large effects.”The tragic legacy of Freud is that many are “unduly embittered about their past, and unduly passive about their future”, says Seligman. His colleague Aaron Beck developed cognitive therapy after becoming disillusioned with his Freudian training in the 1950s. Beck found that as depressed patients talked “cathartically” about past wounds and losses, some people began to unravel. Occasionally this led to suicide attempts, some of which were fatal. There was very little evidence that psychoanalysis worked.