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	<title>Comments on: It’s not a good idea to tell yourself what not to do</title>
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		<title>By: Wang Wei Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wang Wei Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Nov 2021 00:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I thought of this article as I was working with a 4-mm Allen wrench, in a very cramped position, on a large machine. Yep, I dropped the wrench. Retrieved with a telescoping magnet.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought of this article as I was working with a 4-mm Allen wrench, in a very cramped position, on a large machine. Yep, I dropped the wrench. Retrieved with a telescoping magnet.</p>
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		<title>By: Harry Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Nov 2021 18:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Be vague in your aversions and specific in your desires. Focus on what you want.

That said, the negative/subtractive approach is a great learning tool. Disbelieve all that is proven false. Reject all that is proven not to work. Reserve judgment on all else. This approach is empirically sound.

The only problem with it is human emotion — you psych yourself out if you bring the negative into sharp mental focus.

You can&#039;t focus on the right thing until you know what the right thing is. And it&#039;s easier to know what not to do than to know what to do instead. Plenty of people will tell you what not to do. Precious few will tell you what to do instead.

Even Zen meditation needs something to focus on. It works by focusing on something harmless and neutral. This might work as a stopgap measure.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Be vague in your aversions and specific in your desires. Focus on what you want.</p>
<p>That said, the negative/subtractive approach is a great learning tool. Disbelieve all that is proven false. Reject all that is proven not to work. Reserve judgment on all else. This approach is empirically sound.</p>
<p>The only problem with it is human emotion — you psych yourself out if you bring the negative into sharp mental focus.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t focus on the right thing until you know what the right thing is. And it&#8217;s easier to know what not to do than to know what to do instead. Plenty of people will tell you what not to do. Precious few will tell you what to do instead.</p>
<p>Even Zen meditation needs something to focus on. It works by focusing on something harmless and neutral. This might work as a stopgap measure.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Sykes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Sykes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Nov 2021 14:21:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Superego, Ego, Id.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Superego, Ego, Id.</p>
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		<title>By: Harry Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2021 14:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#039;t do that.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t do that.</p>
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