Totalitarianism is absence of Individuality.

There is also this definition by an Israeli historian J.L.Talmon

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Totalitarian_democracy

J. L. Talmon’s 1952 book The Origins of Totalitarian Democracy discusses the transformation of a state in which traditional values and articles of faith shape the role of government into one in which social utility takes absolute precedence. His work is a criticism of the ideas of Jean-Jacques Rousseau, whose political philosophy greatly influenced the French Revolution, the growth of the Enlightenment across Europe, as well the overall development of modern political and educational thought. In The Social Contract, Rousseau contends that the interests of the individual and the state are one and the same, and it is the state’s responsibility to implement the “general will”.

A parasite can either (A) grow unchecked until its host dies, (B) provoke an effective immune response, or (C) acknowledge its parasitic nature and moderate its taxation to a level that the host can bear. “We must preserve capitalism to pay for socialism”, said Lula da Silva after becoming President.

The problem with (C) is that Communism is like a shark: If for any reason it cannot swim forward, it dies.

Black Lives Matter. All the companies without coercion just making enormous contributions to the cause and overtly expressing support over and over.