I can’t explain why, but there are some people who just have this undefinable quality to them, that makes other people want to follow them, and do what they want, even in the face of death. I’ve been around a couple of people who were like that, and it was really hard to define just what quality of theirs it was that made them that way. You know it when you see it, and you are left with a feeling of “What the f**k just happened…?” after you leave their influence. It’s a really interesting question to ask just what is going on with these people, because while I think you can learn to mimic behaviors that are somewhat charismatic, the real deal is an either/or proposition–If you don’t have it, you never will.

sounds like marriage to a bipolar.